hey this is stefan from projectlifemastery.com in this quick video I want to share with you my philosophy around the process versus the result now if any goal that you set for yourself most people are so focused on a result that they’re after and that result might be to lose a lot of weight and have a really great sexy Fit Body or it might be to make a lot of money or to attract a certain person in your life and have a really great relationship and the problem is that most people they’re so focused on the results and they’re fixated and they’re attached to the results and so what ends up happening is when they’re not achieving the result they get disappointed they get frustrated they often give up and that’s what I call being a dabbler is and there’s a really great saying or quote that I heard which is the person that is least attached to the outcome result is a person that’s most likely to actually achieve the result or outcome and let me explain what what I mean by that now with any result or goal there’s always a process to achieving that result and the process is what’s gonna allow you to achieve it you know if you want to lose weight there’s a process you know you have to go through to achieve it so if you want to lose 10 pounds you have to go through the process right same thing if you want to make a lot of money there’s a process or a strategy or a method that you have to go through to achieve that as well the same thing goes with attracting a certain person into your life and it’s that strategy that you have to first master that’s gonna allow you to not just you know have that result but be able to create that result again and again and again in your life now if you want to first lose weight you have to understand there’s a learning curve in that just like there is with anything else if you’ve never been to a gym you’re not just gonna you know lose 10 pounds just like that you have to first learn how to exercise properly you have to first learn how to use the equipment you have to first learn how to develop the habit of just going to the gym everyday doing cardio every day you have to develop the habit of eating consistently eating the right foods in your body the discipline of that same can goes with making money I actually coach people on my blog on how to make money online and with one of the methods that I teach most people there they want to make a certain amount of money right and they want to make it within this amount of time and meanwhile they don’t know anything about internet marketing they don’t know they haven’t studied or learn anything that is totally new and in order to achieve that result it’s not gonna happen that easily you know for me it took me years before I started making money online first you have to learn the process you have to develop the skills and learn how everything works you have to go through the process and I often tell people just focus on making $1.00 online just $1 because in order for you to achieve the result of $1 you’ve already been through the process to make $1 to make money and just by going through the process to achieve that that $1 you’re 90% of the way there to making $100,000 and I’m not exaggerating because if you have the process down all you have to do is just do more of it you just have to scale it up and just enhance that process so the process is more important than the actual result and while that’s what it’s allowed me to make more and more money more passive income is because I have the process down I have it automated I haven’t systematized I’ve been spinning through it so many times that I can just keep replicating more and more results because I have that down the same thing goes with exercise you know I’ve transformed my body I’ve been through the process I learned the process I know how to exercise I know how to eat properly I know what foods to eat I’ve just been through it up mastered it and the great thing is is that even if I gain weight or get out of shape I can always get myself back to a certain result because I’ve been through the process same thing goes you know I used to be a dating coach for about five years I used to coach men on how to meet women and a lot of guys they come to me and say you know I want a girlfriend or I want to be able to go on dates with these women and this kind of stuff right and I’d say well listen just forget about that for now for now just focus on the process okay don’t worry about getting a date that’s just that’s way off into the future let’s just focus today or the next week on just getting the confidence to actually approach someone okay let’s just get that step down okay once you have that down let’s focus on having a conversation with someone okay great now you got that down now let’s go on having a 10-minute conversation with someone okay great now let’s focus on getting someone’s phone number right now let’s focus on calling them on the phone and sending up the date great now let’s focus on the date you know so there’s a process to it and you have to understand that like with anything else that if you go through the process and you master that process you’re gonna be able to get dates again and again and again and again because you have that process down and you know one thing is people look for a cheat or they look for a way to get around the process an example of this might be the lottery you know someone might win a million dollars and that’s great but what happens for a lot of people is they end up losing that million dollars because they go right back to where they were before because they don’t have the process they don’t have the daily habits the habits of saving investing and all that kind of stuff to be able to manage and handle that amount of money because I’ve never been through that process and often times people that make a lot of money like that they’re always in fear because if they lose that million dollars they don’t have never been through the process to make it because they won the lottery they’re not gonna have the confidence or ability or process to be able to get back to where they were before I’ve had many times in my life where I’ve lost a lot of money I was always able to get myself back because I had the process and have been through the process I’ve had times where I’ve lost you know you know weight or of gained weight or whatever but I was always able to get myself back to where I was before because I’ve been through the process that’s a lot different than if you just go and get liposuction you could weigh 300 pounds you can get rid of all the fat from surgery but you’re always gonna gain the weight back because you haven’t changed your eating habits so you haven’t changed your habits of just exercising every day right and so you’ll always go back to where you were before and this is one thing I even learned about with money I remember going to seminars about this and they always talked about that people that are successful with money and they’re financially free one thing they all have in common is they’re great money managers and that if you can’t currently manage the amount of money you have right now in your life then having a million dollars or more than that they’re not gonna be able to manage that either you have to first learn how to manage what you currently have because the habit is a more important than the amount and so if you only have you know people say you know when I make more money that I’m gonna save more money then I’m gonna invest money and all that kind of stuff but if you’re not already saving and investing what you have now then you’re not going to when you have more money and so you must first learn how to manage what you have you have to you know if you only have one dollar learn how to manage that learn how to save 10% of that save that ten cents put that aside you know and just manage and you know use the money that you currently have because once you have to have it down the more money you make you’re gonna be able to manage that a lot easier as well so the whole purpose of this message is just to teach you and explain to you that the process is more important if you focus on getting the process down you’re gonna have all the results that you want and you’re gonna be able to create more and more wealth or abundance or relationships or weight or fitness or whatever it is you want just by first focusing on learning the process understand that there’s a lotta ups and downs and learning and challenges and all I kind of stuff with the process and it takes a lot more time at first but just put the results aside learn the process I promise you the results will come so thank you for watching this video check out my blog project like master e.com and make sure to subscribe to my youtube channel as well and you’ll definitely be able to find a lot more great videos from me so thanks for watching talk to you soon bye